Bombs Away!


Bombs Away! by Valerie Parente

So much praise right away
an affair of love bombing
and I knew better
than to go all in.

Lit up in a flash
like a stick of dynamite
set off, and set up,
designed for sparks to fly.

Spontaneous combustion
the kind that gives you whiplash
shame on me for being surprised
that it fizzled out just as fast.

Now that the smoke has cleared
there’s nothing left
but a gaping space
in the shape of foolishness.

I thought I knew better than to trust
when men declare, “Bombs Away!”
so why am I confused
that it blew up in my face?

– Valerie Parente (2-22-2024)

The Key To Empathy

The Key To Empathy by Valerie Parente

It’s not narcissism
it’s recognizing your pain
as it is a mirror
of my mental state.

It’s empathy
individualized
when I look
into your eyes.

I don’t reach this understanding
by thinking about my soul
I reach it
when I see you have your own.

– Valerie Parente (3-18-2021)

Better Lost Than Found

Writer’s block has forced me to address a narcissistic quandary I have been able to avoid under the influence of inspiration.

Do you deliver halfhearted writing piece after writing piece just for the temporary gratification of seeing your name in print, only to find that none of those writing pieces hold any true value to the world? Or do you take your hands off the keyboard, sicken yourself with self-doubt, face unedited introspection, and feel indescribably lost?

identity crisis

When I realized that the scarier reality was giving no value to this world versus being lost from my own mental limelight it became clear that this heartache, confusion, and serious self-doubting induced by writer’s block offered me the perfect opportunity to reach a new milestone.

My greatest breakthrough against narcissism came from the humbling realization that I would rather lose touch with myself than ultimately find out I have nothing to offer the world.

I would not have come to such a comforting revelation without the discomfort of writer’s block.

– Valerie Parente (7-22-16)